so does my uncle louie at the olive garden, but that's another story, 'cause he drinks. but that's what children do that's their job and it's the parents' job to raise them, teach them right from wrong and communicate in a manner that doesn't involve bruising physically or psychological. the philosophy rene descarte, i dated him, didn't say "aspank, therefore i am," he said "i think, therefore i am." when kid russ screaming and driving you crazy, don't lift your hand to them, lift your mind, think it through. spanking your children won't make them love or respect you it will make them fear and resent you. do you want to be a parent or a network executive? i believe that spanking is abuse. hopefully that's not just me. >> the "joy bay har show" premiers next tuesday at 9 p.m. eastern but check it out now, cnn.com/joy. >>> a company has been accused of selling supplements that contain steroids. it's also on the internet and that company has ties to a major league baseball team? okay. what's going on with this, rafer weigle with the info. >> not saying that this company is